But apparently there are a whole bunch of non-SP women out there just dying to give away bare back sex for free!
SPs always have condoms. I am always prepared! The drunk girl/guy at the bar who randomly hook up typically aren’t and they are drunk so they have poor judgement and skip the condom.. Also, many average everyday people are too scared to get tested, or ashamed, or embarrassed, or just ignorant.
https://hookupdate.net/pl/the-inner-circle-recenzja/
There is a wealth of knowledge on the internet and some sites (like perb) even have a health nurse whom you can ask for advice. And even if you are playing safe, it is important to get tested regularly (every 3-6 months depending how often you play). My favorite clinic is this one, they let you use an alias name if you wish and they are very professional and NOT judgemental:
Play safe and have fun everyone! And if she says “I’m allergic to latex, we don’t need to use a condom”… RUN!
** I do not use the word slut in a mean or hurtful way. I am a proud slut! I think being a slut is a good thing as long as you are an ethical slut. By ethical slut I mean that you are honest, safe, and do your best not to emotionally or physically harm or endanger others. (See the book The Ethical Slut- great book!)
Vancouver Independent Companion- thoughts and rants
So why are these things not as obvious to clients who understand the no BBFS rule? Clients attempt these things now and then. The risks are obvious to me…
– Touching yourself (especially with precum present) and then attempting to perform uncovered digits on me with the same hand
– Uncovered grinding, so close that it could easily slip in, but even if it doesn’t the genitals rubbing against each other is a no-no!
I sometimes question if people were offered sex-ed in school, or if they just didn’t pay attention, or if they are just dumb!
I’m sure almost every SP has had at least one potential client ask about BBFS, to which we respond by saying we will not see them at all since they dared to ask that..
I say this because in the recent months I have had a few guy friends on the hunt for FWB situations, casual dating, or NSA sex. Meeting ladies online has been pretty easy, and sometimes it has even progressed to drinks and the anticipation of sex… until…
… The woman says “I am allergic to latex so I prefer to not use condoms” or “I am allergic to latex so I don’t usually use condoms”…
This is coming from a woman who just met this guy, sometimes has not even met him in person, is talking to a guy she met online and knows nothing about. We chatted about this and my friends and I all agreed that if she is saying it to him she has said it to other guys in the past, and I am sure many guys would jump at that offer. My (smart) friends say no thanks because they know that she does not practice safe sex and fucking her would be a huge risk. I’d be willing to bet most of these chicks don’t get tested either.
Not to mention the pregnancy risk! Even if she says she is on birth control, heck even if she IS on birth control, I know many kids that were made while “on birth control” and who wants a kid with some random slut** from the internet? That is your whole LIFE you are messing with! STIs, pregnancy.. don’t these people THINK?